Angie & Jim

A Second Opinionby Jim

This afternoon, Dr. Murphy stopped by.  Dr. Murphy was Angie’s primary cardiologist when we first moved here and had been until only recently, when they transitioned her over to Dr. Lui.  Dr. Murphy has taken on more of an administrative role for the heart clinic and so he doesn’t spend much time with patients anymore.  He does, however, continue to be involved in decision-making meetings over his former patients.  He’d been in Cleveland this week, but still aware of the situation.  He wanted to stop by and see how Angie has been, which was really nice of him.  He really is a great doctor.  Anyway, he said a few things that we thought were interesting.  One thing he mentioned is that when there is high pressure in the blood, it will act just like when there is lots of traffic on the street: some cars will spill over onto surface streets to get through.  With blood, he said that our blood with actually make new pathways to get around the areas of high pressure.  Sometimes when this happens, you get oxygen rich blood that finds another path to the oxygen poor blood, which is called a shunt.  He said they weren’t uncommon with patients like Angie.  He seemed hopeful that they’ll be able to fix them, if that is what has happened.  I think it helped Angie to see him so optimistic about things.  I’ve always been really impressed by his doctoring.

After he left, Angie made a really interesting point.  We know that the fluid build-up was causing abnormally high pressures in her heart before they drained it off.  It seems very reasonable that this high pressure caused a shunt to form which would explain this oxygen saturation problem we’re facing.  Seems logical to me.  Let’s just hope it was formed in a place that can easily be repaired.

Jon & Brittany came by to visit and we played a couple hands of All Hands On Deck, the card game we’ve invented.  It was fun to play and visit with family.  It lifted our spirits a bit.  Jon also helped me administer the sacrament and give Angie a blessing.  I’m really glad they could come.

I’ve been reading The Fellowship of the Ring to Angie over the last couple days.  We both love the book and Angie has always loved being read to while in the hospital.  We’ve often used the Lord of the Rings trilogy books because we can start from any of them and end anywhere without worrying about how it begins or ends.  While Tolkien can ramble on about the country side quite often, he really is brilliant in the characters he created.  We both love the friendships of those in the fellowship.  We just finished reading the part where Merry, Pippin, Sam, and Fredegar tell Frodo about their conspiracy to come with them.  Love that part.

So, as things stand right now, I think the soonest we could go home is Wednesday.  Obviously, things would have to go quickly and very well over the next couple days.  Angie’s saturation levels have actually looked really good for the last few hours (over 90, even while sitting up a bit to eat dinner), so that is a bit encouraging.  I even saw it get to 99%, but it was only for a split second before falling back to the typical 91-92%.

I’ve had two different people from work offer to donate some vacation time to me.  The lab has a program that lets you donate vacation to someone else who is in need.  There are restrictions about how it can be used, but I would be eligible this week once my vacation is used up.  I can’t say how much it means to me to have anyone even offer to do something so selfless.  I feel so strongly that my place is right here by my wife’s side, and it pains me to stress about work when I feel loyal to both my employer and my wife.  But, my loyalty to my wife trumps everything else.  I’ve managed to get some work done, but not much.  If I can work a bit during the day, I can make my vacation stretch a little longer.

Thanks for reading, and thank you all for all the prayers and support.  We love you.